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Dear Daniel,
Hi! I know I haven't written in a very long time, and
I apologize. I could lie and say that it's because I've been busy doing lots of exciting things, but I'm determined to tell you the truth, although I feel a bit ashamed.



The truth is that I've spent the last few months feeling upset and depressed. In general, I've been down in the dumps. You see, my girlfriend, Samantha, left me in January. Although I'm a very emotional person, this time I don't think I'm overreacting. I just can't seem to cope. I cry all the time and am reminded of Samantha wherever I go. I haven't been sleeping well and as a result, I've been feeling extremely run down and I can't do a good job at work.

I loved Sam very much, and despite our differences of opinion and occasional fights, we always managed to work things out. She really broke my heart. I think she knew that I wanted to discuss getting married, and the whole idea of marriage frightened her terribly.

At last I've decided that I've been feeling sorry for myself for too long, and that I have to stop feeling like a victim. It's time to do something to improve my situation.

In spite of my anxiety about telling a complete stranger my problems, I want to see a therapist. I need someone who is sympathetic and kind. Do you know anyone in my area? Please let me know. You went for counseling a few years ago, didn't you? Did you find it helpful?

Enough about me and my problems. How are you, Daniel? Is your boss still driving you crazy? At first it seemed that you liked your new job, but now it sounds like it puts you under a lot of stress. Maybe you should look for a new job; something where there is less tension. How are Kathy and the baby?
I hope you'll all be able to drop by for a visit during your summer vacation.

Please write soon,
Michael

P.S. Believe it or not, writing this letter has cheered me up! Thanks!
Michael